What Questions Are Asked During a Child Custody Evaluation?

If you’re going through a custody dispute, one critical step is the child custody evaluation. This process helps the court decide what is in the best interest of the child. But many parents feel anxious because they don’t know what kinds of questions will be asked.

In this blog, we’ll walk you through the most common child custody evaluation questions, how to prepare, and what evaluators are really looking for during a family court custody interview.

What Is a Child Custody Evaluation?

A child custody evaluation is a court-ordered or voluntary psychological assessment involving both parents (and sometimes the child). A licensed professional, usually a psychologist or social worker, conducts the evaluation to make a recommendation to the judge.

These evaluations are especially common in high-conflict custody disputes, or when abuse, neglect, or mental health concerns are raised.

Common Child Custody Evaluation Questions

Here are some frequently asked questions evaluators may ask you during a family court custody interview:

About Your Living Environment

Is your home safe and stable for your child?
Do you have a separate room or space for the child?
Who else lives in the home with you?

About Parenting Time & Routines

What is your typical schedule with the child?
How do you plan to manage school, healthcare, and extracurriculars?
How do you discipline your child?

About Co-Parenting

How is your communication with the other parent?
Are you willing to support your child’s relationship with the other parent?
What disagreements have you had regarding parenting?

About Emotional Health & Lifestyle

Have you ever been treated for mental health or substance abuse issues?
How do you handle stress?
Do you have a history of domestic violence?

These child custody evaluation questions aim to give the evaluator a 360-degree view of your parenting capabilities.

Will My Child Be Interviewed Too?

Yes, often children are interviewed in a safe and neutral way. The evaluator may ask:

How do you feel about spending time with each parent?
What do you like or dislike about each home?
Who helps you with homework or takes you to activities?

The evaluator observes verbal and non-verbal responses and may also conduct play-based assessments for younger children.

What Evaluators Look for in a Family Court Custody Interview

Evaluators focus on several key factors, including:

The child’s emotional and physical needs
Each parent’s ability to meet those needs
Stability, safety, and consistency
History of caregiving
Ability to co-parent cooperatively

Their goal is not to choose a “better parent,” but to recommend the arrangement that serves the child’s best interests.

How to Prepare for a Child Custody Evaluation

Be honest and stay calm.
Avoid badmouthing the other parent.
Focus on your child’s needs, not personal grievances.
Show you are willing to cooperate when needed.

Final Thoughts

Understanding the child custody evaluation questions and how to respond can reduce anxiety and help you prepare. Whether you’re preparing for a family court custody interview or seeking legal advice, the more informed you are, the better you can advocate for your child.